Now accepting early access

Date smarter,
with your trusted
council
behind you.

The Dating Board adds a private, human layer to modern dating. Invite close friends or mentors to help you spot red flags, ask better questions, and make confident decisions — without the chaos of group chats.

MK JR AS TL

2,400+ people on the waitlist.
Be among the first to date with a council.

DatingBoard
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Alex, 29
Product Designer · San Francisco
Verified Hinge Match
MK
Maya
👍
JR
James
👎
AS
Aisha
James · Private Note
“His LinkedIn doesn’t match what he told you — worth a second look before you meet.”
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How It Works

Dating with a council
is just smarter

Four simple steps from solo swiping to confident, council-backed decisions.

1
Step One
Build Your Board

Invite 2–5 trusted friends, family members, or mentors. Each gets their own private view — your council, not a crowd.

2
Step Two
Share a Prospect

Add someone you’re considering. Share as much or as little as you like — profile, screenshots, conversation context.

3
Step Three
Collect Feedback

Board members vote thumbs up or down and leave private notes only you can see. No pressure, no public ratings.

4
Step Four
Decide with Confidence

You always choose. Your Board just makes sure you have the perspective you need before you invest your time and heart.

Core Features

Everything your
council needs

Designed for real relationships, not gamified swiping. Every feature serves one goal: helping you date with clarity.

Your Personal Board

Up to 5 handpicked advisors. Roles you define — best friend, sibling, mentor, therapist. Your council, your rules.

Simple Voting

Thumbs up / thumbs down with optional private notes. No star ratings, no scoring — just human gut instinct, structured.

Private Notes

Board members write observations only you can read. Red flags, questions, green lights — delivered to you privately.

Board Messaging

Direct messaging with individual board members. Ask for their take, dig deeper, get the perspective you need.

Trust Signals

Optionally display screened board member first names to prospects, reinforcing accountability without public exposure.

You’re in Control

Decide how much weight each board member’s vote carries. You see everything; prospects see nothing from your Board.

Your Board

A council, not
a committee

Your Board isn’t a jury. They’re your most trusted people — there to catch what you might miss when emotions are running high.

  • Votes are private — board members don’t see each other’s opinions.
  • Notes stay between you and each board member, always.
  • Prospects never interact with your Board directly.
  • You can update, pause, or change your Board at any time.
Alex’s Prospect — Jordan M.
Board Review
MK
Maya K.
Best Friend · 8 years
Yes
JR
James R.
Mentor · Former boss
Concern
AS
Aisha S.
Sister
Pending
James R. · Private Note for You
“I looked them up — their LinkedIn shows a different job title than what they told you. Might be innocent, but worth asking directly before you meet.”
Privacy First

Designed to protect
everyone involved

This isn’t a public rating platform. Every decision was made to keep feedback private, dignified, and useful — not viral.

Prospects Are Never Rated Publicly

No scores, no public profiles, no public rejection. The Board exists to help you — not to humiliate anyone.

Board Feedback Stays Private

Votes and notes are visible only to you. Board members cannot see each other’s input, eliminating groupthink.

Opt-in Transparency Only

You choose whether prospects can see limited trust signals (like board member first names). Nothing is shown without your decision.

End-to-End Encryption

All notes and messages between you and your Board are encrypted. Your council’s candor stays between you.

Delete Anytime

Remove a prospect, dismiss a board member, or delete your account at any time. You own your data, always.

No Platform Opinions

We never score, rank, or recommend prospects. The judgment stays human — your Board’s, not an algorithm’s.

Early Voices

People are already
dating differently

★★★★★
“I wish I’d had this two years ago. My board caught things I was too hopeful to see — and saved me months of heartbreak.”
SL
Samantha L.
Early tester · NYC
★★★★★
“Being on someone’s board made me feel genuinely useful, not just a rubber stamp. The private notes feature is brilliant.”
DR
David R.
Board member · Austin
★★★★★
“Dating apps feel so lonely. Having my two best friends on my board made the whole experience feel supported instead of isolating.”
PK
Priya K.
Beta user · Chicago
Pricing

Simple plans, no
hidden surprises

Start free. Upgrade when your dating life demands it.

Free
$0 / month
  • 1 active prospect at a time
  • Up to 2 board members
  • Thumbs up / down voting
  • Private notes (read only)
  • Board messaging
  • Trust signal display
Get Started Free
Advisory
$19 / month
  • Everything in Council
  • Professional advisor matching
  • Anonymous board option
  • Advanced privacy controls
  • Priority support
  • Early access to new features
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Stop dating solo.
Build your Board today.

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